Lifecycles
February 28, 2006
We've all heard them: "It's darkest before the dawn; Every cloud has a silver lining; When one door closes, another one opens." They are those sayings that make us feel better when we get disappointed. They are mild pain relievers also known as God's aspirin.
Though we probably don't think much of them, they could mean the difference between staying in a certain mind frame or coming out if it unscathed.
Life's unexpected incidents can bring us to the brink of spiritual disaster or the dawn of a new beginning. Some people may describe the recent hurricane survivors as being lucky they were taken from such dire circumstances.
Still the majority view it as being a tragedy any way you look at it. To them, death and destruction always equals a loss of hope, faith and spirit. Optimism shouldn't be totally discounted.
After any destruction is new construction. Unfortunately we can't bring the dead victims back to life. Out of the survivors, many people will get new jobs, renewed hope and faith; bringing the death of their spirits back to life. It's the cycle of birth, death and rebirth.
We are on a treadmill of experiences; some happy, some sad; all unforgettable. When we fall off, we have to jump back on. In doing so, we develop a resolve, an inner strength, a spiritual deliberation of God's plans.
An inner dialogue may go like this: "What plans? Why wasn't I consulted?" We can't question God's plans. Well, we could if we want, but that may cause more frustration and just won't do any good.
By being a willing participant, you allow yourself to work with God. The real question is how do we know it is God's plan? Ask? The answer may be manifested in your daily activities; your dreams; a stranger's advice; a sign; anything. You have to foster your inner communication with your spirit. This can be accomplished by contemplation; silencing the mind and the little self.
Murphy's Laws symbolize the error-prone nature of people and processes. When people quote Murphy's Law, it's because of their mindset. If you reverse your thinking, you are more likely to remember the positivity in life rather than negativity.
Some of of the laws are as follows:
- If something can go wrong, it will.
- Left to themselves, things tend to go from bad to worse.
- Matter will be damaged in direct proportion to its value.
- The buddy system is essential to your survival; it gives the enemy somebody else to shoot at.
- Technology is dominated by those who manage what they do not understand.
- Tell a man there are 300 billion stars in the universe and he'll believe you. Tell him a bench has wet paint on it and he'll have to touch to be sure.
- The first myth of management is that it exists.
For fun, test your optimism level at The Test Cafe. Enjoy.
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